I found my biological grandfather. Now what?
He opted out of our lives eighty years ago. Does the connection matter?
For the past couple of months I’ve been neck-deep in a search for my mother’s biological father, who was never part of her life. My mother was raised by another man, my grandmother’s eventual husband (pictured holding Mom below), with whom Gram had four more children. My mother didn’t learn the truth until she was an adult.